Why does not my cat like affection?

Each cat has its own personality and, this is the most interesting in these animals. Some cats just want to get away from the world without being too fond of caresses and pampering, while others might be in their arms all day long. Often their indifference is due to their particular nature. However, sometimes there are some obstacles that get in the way of your affection for your pet.

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It is important to know these possibilities to avoid labeling the cat unfriendly or evasive. Then, in the YourCatCareguide we will explain to you why your cat does not like affection , knowing thus the reasons of the physical distance of his beloved pet. Maybe it’s just a creature of reserved tastes.

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The Cat’s Socialization

You must understand that breeding, education and socialization are going to be fundamental pillars of a good part of the personality of cats. Animals raised in a house full of love in which they have been constantly caressed since their young age will be much more receptive to human contact .

Likewise, if they have lived with other cats since they were little, they are likely to be more sociable cats with other cats. If they have had a good socialization and have been accustomed to receiving affection, they will not caress themselves and will like to be caressed.

However, cats who live in abusive environments, on the street or who have been traumatized (for mistreatment, neglect or illness) will be much more apprehensive and more cautious about any kind of caress. If your human companions have never held you before, you probably do not want them to do so now.

If you do not know the history of your feline, you can always try to socialize an adult cat , however you should know that it is a long and complicated process , so it is worth working with a cat educator, feline expert.

Aggressiveness and negative behaviors

You should be very attentive to this point because you may have a cat with a tendency to aggression, a cat that does not like to be petted or simply a cat that does not know how to play calmly and without hurting.

Some cats do not like constant human affection and ask to be given their space, others do not like to be petted constantly on certain points of the body, or rather the same point.

Studies have stated that continually caressing a zone can be counterproductive causing more unpleasant sensations than pleasant ones. The solution: do not always stay in the same spot and caress the entire body of your pet. If your cat contracts its ears or scratches your hand while caressing it in a particular place, it is a signal to stop and move to another area.

The best way to get a cat’s physical approach is not to insist or force the interaction, but rather to encourage him to want contact. As much as your intentions are best, avoid petting him against his will.

Start with the basics: health it, sit at your level, stretch your hand and let it get close. Choose a time when you are relaxed and gradually gain confidence. When you approach and ask for caresses, surprise him with a prize or a kind word, your cat will associate the approach with a positive moment. At the first sign you do not want, let it go. Freedom will generate security and comfort before you.

Fears and traumas

At YourCatCareguide we like to remind you that cats are very sensitive and sensitive animals that are also afraid. They suffer from situations that cause fear, such as fireworks, storms, loud sounds, strange or unfamiliar people, and many other situations. We’re talking about apprehension. The brain needs to be alert and active and the caresses are a distraction and a moment of relaxation. Often the very fact of caressing them is a scare and puts them anxious in times of tension.

The best in this case is to have patience with your cat and the situation, not to provide the contact if they do not want to and let them be themselves. Stay present but do not cuddle or grasp your arms, unless you ask for it, let it adapt little by little. He will know that you are accepting his terms, this will certainly have more and better effect in the future.

Pain and diseases

It can happen that your cat has pains and not enjoy much with the caresses because it is physically very sensitive. Soft strokes or gentle pressure can even be painful for him. If your cat has always been very kind, and suddenly changed character , it may be that something is hurting him, that he has some internal wound or discomfort. If the change was drastic, it will be best to take it to the vet to perform a general checkup.

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Emily Harris
 

Hi Guys, Girls, and Cats:-p I am Emily Harris, and you can see in above pic. She loves me I swear. I saved her from a dumpster a few weeks back.

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